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Kristin Davis asks “Why risk self-destructive behavior?”

Kristin DavisKristin Davis used to get confidence from a bottle, says Sarah Maber in an article.

As a teenager growing up in South Carolina, Davis was a wallflower:

“I was really shy. I didn’t know how to come out of my shell.”

Then she discovered bourbon.

“Everyone gets mad at me when I say this, but it’s the truth – people in the South drink a lot. From 15 onwards, people hand you bourbon.

“Alcohol freed me up. It’s the same reason I discovered I loved acting – I wanted to feel things and express myself.

“And I’m not naturally that way.”

But drinking only worked up to a point. When she moved to New York, she still found that her inhibitions were getting in the way of her acting career.

“I was focused, but I didn’t sell myself. I wasn’t outgoing. I didn’t command attention. My 20s were the worst time of my life.”

Broke and lonely, she stepped up the drinking – until she felt she was losing control, and had to quit booze altogether.

“It was a problem waiting to happen as far as I was concerned. Alcoholism has run in my family.”

[From The Week, Dec 22 2006, quoting British magazine Psychologies, Dec 2006]

Chose to stop

In another interview [Charlotte’s web, by Barbara Ellen, The Observer Feb 10, 2002], Davis comments,

“I just realised that drinking was counterproductive to what I was trying to do.

“Acting is very difficult in weird ways. You’d have to get to class by 8am, work all day, rehearse all night, and it’s not really good to do when you’re hung over.

“I’d wanted to be an actress my whole life, that was my goal, that was all I cared about.

“Something had to go, so I chose drinking to go… Sometimes it would be nice to just have some red wine with dinner, but it’s not worth the risk.

“I have a great life, a great situation. Why would I want to risk self-destructive behaviour?”

Kristin Davis graduated from Rutgers University and has garnered acclaim for her roles in Melrose Place, and Sex and the City, among other projects.

Tortured geniuses

As I note in my article Actors and Addiction, key entertainment industry executives and producers, even fellow actors, may enable drug and alcohol abuse by actors, unless it gets too “out of control.”

As fictional movie studio exec Peter Dragon (Jay Mohr) said in the TV series “Action” (1999):

“Yeah – in rehab you’re an addict; on a sound stage you’re a tortured genius.”

Part of what makes many actors successful is their high sensitivity, and using alcohol or other drugs may be, for some people, a way to deal with that sensitivity.

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Facebook photo of Davis from her page – caption: “YAY! Over 3,000 T-Shirts sold at represent.com/kristin All to help elephants!”

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Some related articles:

Gifted, Talented, Addicted.

Shyness and High Sensitivity – On Stage or Off.

Introverted, Shy or Highly Sensitive in the Arts.

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More resources for your creative life
Creative Mind Publications
The Self-Acceptance Summit
The Stress Mastery Program by Heidi Hanna
Emotional Health Resources page

Filed Under: Actors and Performers, Emotional challenges Tagged With: addiction and artists, anxiety, Kristin Davis, Sensitivity
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