Actor William H. Macy once commented,
“Nobody became an actor because he had a good childhood.”
Psychologist Cheryl Arutt agrees that is both a funny and a provocative remark.
She thinks that actors and other artists who are willing, in their creative work, to delve into the really “messy” feelings of being human (shame, devastations, disappointments, betrayals, traumas and more), probably have a relationship with those feelings.
She is a licensed clinical psychologist in Los Angeles, specializing in trauma recovery, fertility and creative artist issues, and a forensic and media consultant, as well as a frequent psychological expert on CNN, HLN, truTV and Fox News.
Topics in our interview [hear excerpt below] include:
“Bad boy” images and acting-out
Actors and actresses with “bad boy” or “troubled” images, or problems with issues of anger and acting out, have included Christian Bale, Shia Labeouf and many other talented performers.
Dr. Arutt comments about this kind of behavior, and the underlying emotional challenges, that so many people have – not just actors and performers.
“Life without pain isn’t real at all.”
Shia LaBeouf started acting at age 12 to support his mother when his heroin-addicted father abandoned the family. LaBeouf has said he was subjected to verbal and mental abuse by his father, who once pointed a gun at him during a Vietnam War flashback.
From my post Traumatic Childhood, Creative Adult .
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The Shadow Self
Dr. Arutt talks about the concept of the Shadow Self that psychologist Carl Jung addressed in his therapy and writings. She notes that our emotional health and balance, perhaps especially for artists, may depend on having some understanding and acceptance of the darker or uncomfortable sides of ourselves – and this also gives us more power to make aware choices rather than just react to life unconsciously.
Also see my post Dancing With Our Shadow to Develop Creativity.
Creativity and mental health
This is a favorite topic of both of us, and Dr. Arutt talks about the fears many artists have about treating their depression, anxiety or other challenges, and then numbing or losing their creativity.
Dr. Arutt points out that certain forms of psychotherapy and techniques such as EMDR can be very effective in helping creative people get past the emotional pains which interfere with their creativity.
She notes that sometimes medication can be helpful for disruptive symptoms when prescribed by a medication specialist, a knowledgeable psychiatrist or psychopharmacologist.
“Unfortunately, many people are prescribed psychiatric medications by their general physician who may not be informed or trained well enough about this class of medications, resulting in people getting drug treatment that may not be helpful.”
Here is brief excerpt from our much longer audio interview:
Here is a video based on the audio excerpt:
Also hear longer interview:
Psychologist Cheryl Arutt on Creative Artist Issues.
Topics include high sensitivity, regulating disruptive feelings, destructiveness vs creativity, pain and creativity, being unconventional vs rebellion against the self, the fight-or-flight response, and other issues which can impact creative artists and, of course, other people as well.
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Norman Bates and his mom
“She just goes a little mad sometimes. We all go a little mad sometimes. Haven’t you?” Norman Bates in Psycho (1960).
As a prequel to the film, the TV series “Bates Motel” portrays how Norman Bates’ psyche “unravels through his teenage years” under the influence of his mother, Norma.
Kerry Ehrin is a creator, writer, producer and showrunner of “Bates Motel” (on A&E) and writes about the personal influences that helped her create such emotionally rich characters.
“…writing a couple of crazy people started getting terribly personal. The first thing I had to do when trying to find Norma Bates on paper was to forget that I’d had therapy.
“Sure, therapy is great, and it saved my life and blah, blah, blah. But getting ‘healthy’ definitely knocks a lot of the fun out of your life.
“And I missed it; the crazy, emotional, larger-than-life existence that was too big and too exhausting to fit into the real world in any productive way.
“Enter Norma Bates: the perfect vehicle for every crazy thing I’ve ever felt or done. She could be mercurial, fierce, insecure, recklessly sexual, passionately maternal, wildly brave and incredibly fragile all at once.”
“Although my childhood was nowhere near as bleak as Norma’s, I did grow up in an environment that, along with many wonderful elements, included chaos, rage, alcohol abuse, broken hearts and the hamster wheel of hoping that it would be different because you loved the hell out of everyone in the house and wanted to fix it for them.
“I attached that to Norma and Norman.
“That feeling of being so bonded to your ally in a dysfunctional family that you might die without them. Those bonds have tremendous power and are often co-dependent.
“Co-dependence gets a lot of bad press, but it also has incredible power and larger-than-life beauty and meaning when you are on the inside of it, so much so that ‘normal,’ healthy relationships often pale in comparison.”
From her article Delving deep for Norma’s voice on ‘Bates Motel’.
Ehrin’s comment about missing the “craziness” reminds me of another artist:
Actor, novelist, script consultant, screenwriter, and performance artist Carrie Fisher has experienced depression and other mental health challenges.
“The manic end of is a lot of fun. I try to encourage people to envy my mania. A lot of it is just fantastic.”
Dr. Arutt refers to her TEDx video – “That Good Feeling of Control” – and notes the title comes from TV host Fred Rogers who wanted to teach kids how to deal with the “mad” they felt inside, and be able to decide what to do with these kinds of strong feelings, and that what he was talking about was self-regulation and affect regulation that can help us as adults, too.
She thinks most forms of mental illness “can be traced to some form of dysregulation, either over-control or under-control.”
[You can view the video in the post Channeling Intensity Through Creative Expression.]
Artists need to safely access challenging emotional “places”
She notes our “flaws and quirks are some of the most interesting things about us” and that when actors can be free to play and risk, and trust they can safely return from extreme states of mind, they can immerse themselves in their characters, and sublimate or channel difficult or challenging emotions, and this can be one of the great gifts of working in a creative field.
But actor Mariska Hargitay has talked about finding it hard to “shake off” some of the horrific stories she helps portray on her long-running TV show “Law and Order: Special Victims Unit.”
Dr. Arutt says something similar happens with therapists who work with victims of trauma.
Recovery from trauma
One of her areas of expertise is trauma therapy, for about twenty years. Dr. Arutt says people who have experienced trauma have had “more coming into their system than they are designed to cope with” using our hardwired fight/flight/freeze responses.
She finds that when people experience trauma and don’t understand well enough what is going on, they often feel “crazy” and don’t realize millions of others have had similar experiences.
Trauma can also lead to self-blame and very negative beliefs about the self, which can endure a lifetime if they aren’t addressed. Dr. Arutt notes that “each person’s hell is their own” and that what is traumatic for someone does not have to be just a “major” event like rape or being in a war, surviving a car crash or hurricane.
“We are not really in a position to judge what is going to traumatize another person.”
She is ‘very excited’ by the technology of fMRI, functional MRI, a form of brain scanning that shows how the brain is functioning, in addition to its anatomy.
She notes this can show the changes in the brain from PTSD (post traumatic stress disorder), and its healing, using therapy such as EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprocessing), which she describes.
After I comment in our interview that Highly Sensitive People may react more to traumatic experiences, Dr. Arutt agrees, and adds that high sensitivity is correlated with creativity and giftedness: “These things can overlap substantially.”
She says that whether or not they have the trait of high sensitivity (sensory processing sensitivity), creative people experience things in “such a deep, profound way” and that is why so many artists call other people ‘civilians’ who don’t really understand.
[Photo: Halle Berry said she recalls being terrified that her violent father, who physically abused her mother, would turn on her, adding, “I think I’ve spent my adult life dealing with the sense of low self-esteem that sort of implanted in me. Somehow I felt not worthy.” – From post: Creative People and Trauma.]
[Also see video: Psychologist Cheryl Arutt on Creative People and Sensitivity and Suffering in post:
Pain and suffering and developing creativity.]
Being courageous to be authentic and follow our creative talents
Dr. Arutt recites part of a wonderful poem she often shares with her creative professional clients who may be struggling with “the issue of talent and self worth,” and questions such as ‘Am I a real artist’ – as well as with family responses that may or may not be supportive.
The poem is “For the young who want to” by Marge Piercy. It starts off:
Talent is what they say
you have after the novel
is published and favorably
reviewed. Beforehand what
you have is a tedious
delusion, a hobby like knitting.
Work is what you have done
after the play is produced
and the audience claps.
Before that friends keep asking
when you are planning to go
out and get a job.
Self-care and staying healthy
Dr. Arutt concludes that creative people need to show self-compassion and take care of themselves – that you “can’t protect the art without protecting the artist.”
She also emphasizes that whether or not you use difficulties in life for art, “Your pain is a part of you, but you are not your symptoms; you are so much more.”
She urges creative people to “allow permission to be thriving and healthy. To be able to go out and dare to write or embody all that the artist wants to do, really starts with learning how to settle down” and quiet the mind and body.
“The sensitivity and the ability to go there, to create – wherever ‘there’ may be – is a gift and a talent. But getting stuck there is no fun for anyone, and is not required in order to do good work. If you can take good care of yourself, and then visit there, everybody wins.”
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Artists and Addiction – Philip Seymour Hoffman, Edie Falco, Russell Brand, Tatum O’Neal, Johnny Depp, Ed Harris, Michael J. Fox, Robert Downey Jr., Faye Dunaway, Carrie Fisher, Colin Farrell, Lynda Carter and other artists, plus comments by psychologists. Also links to resources: books, articles, programs.
Articles by Cheryl Arutt:
Emotional Health Resources
Programs, books, articles and sites to improve your emotional wellbeing.
Article publié pour la première fois le 18/12/2012